women/complications---?

Though its a hard to understand what is inside a women's head but sometimes its easier to understand what is inside her heart. She is emotional but that's not bad at all since it completes what has been missing in a man's life. Recently i have come across quite interesting arguments as they say that a women best loves her family when an infant, her man when married and her child when she becomes a mother. As far as i go i think its just be easier for a man to accept woman just as, an other human being with different orientation altogether. A man thinks woman should understand him but isn't he letting go the fact that shes also a complicated mind who might feel for him but find it hard to understand the same. The complications a man faces is just. been to dependent/ to casual on the part of the opposite sex. Understanding a woman does not go beyond the very understanding of yourself, its just your reflection with the missing qualities which you are not born with. A life time where one has to provide livelihood, make a mark of himself is it really worth to give yourself a risk of knowing someone of entirely different dimension. Nothing in this world is constant than change, we all change then the original thought of knowing a person vanishes since with the time you might find yourself acquiring a new thinking. So how can you expect to know someone more than you as you yourself are bound for a change. Feel for someone who completes the puzzle of life , as he/she might have the missing parts. But you cannot complete your puzzle if someones has most beautiful parts but of a puzzle of different kind. A life will complete by itself sometimes it might not need that finding. When people are free, they feel everything has life even though. its elements are not with us. If a person can bring mortality to that sense in ones life then mind and heart won't be at war.